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Questionnaire
and work sheet for personalized ceremony design.
For
your Sacred Marriage...
Visioning
and planning your Wedding.
The
vow writing process
Spiritual
preparation for your sacred marriage ceremony
Indivdual
and couples counseling for bride and groom.
Utilizing the wedding questionairr and worksheet will help
clarify your vision, values and plan. This process allows us to become
familiar with one another while begining the creative process for
writing your vows and planning your personalized ceremony.
I invite you to let this inspire and empower your process as
individuals and as a marrying couple preparing to take vows of
committment and dedication to your relationship. I can be your guide
with as much support and assistance as you need. We can work together
to craft the best possible reflection of your individual
selves,
your relationship, and your wedding vision.
One must be grounded and well prepared for the ceremony of marriage,
the promise you are about to make is the most intimate offering you can
ever make to another being. In honoring this I offer a wide and rich
variety of ceremonial tools at your disposal. I invite you to be
creative, and make it your own, it can look any way you would like it
to. Working together, we create the wedding you've been dreaming of.
Crafting it together, or making it simple by providing vows and sacred
scripts for you to choose from.
To work with the questionnaire and work sheet….
I suggest that you utilize the work sheet in the following
way…sit comfortably with a printed copy of the below
questions,
each with a note pad of preferably large paper. Relax and allow
some free-writing to occur as well as un-edited answering of
the
questions. Discuss it with one another as you feel to and allow the
process to be spread over a few days or weeks time if that’s
what
it takes to drop in deeply.
Most of all make it fun, personal, and real ...be honest and make sure
to remember the joy.
- List 4 to 6 key values
of your partnership
- List 4 to 6 key
words/phrases for your vows
- What are you willing and
able to promise to your beloved?
- What would you like your
ceremony to portray about your relationship and Marriage?
- What
kind of experience would you like your guests/witnesses to have at your
wedding? (In other words…what message or attributes would
you
like presented by the officiate).
- Tell
me a little bit about your family members who will be
present…Age, demographic, religion, ethnicity, spirituality,
gender preferences if applicable..
- Tell me a little about
your community of friends, associates and guests who will be present.
- Describe a favorite
aspect(s) of a wedding ceremony you have attended in the past
- What qualities or
attributes are you seeking in your wedding minister?
- Anything additional you
would like to share?
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